4.\tI lived with that diagnosis all day. Later that evening I had a biopsy, where they stuck an endoscope down my throat, through my stomach and into my intestines, put a needle into my pancreas and got a few cells from the tumor. I was sedated, but my wife, who was there, told me that when they viewed the cells under a microscope the doctors started crying because it turned out to be a very rare form of pancreatic cancer that is curable with surgery. I had the surgery and I’m fine now.
5.\tThis was the closest I’ve been to facing death, and I hope it’s the closest I get for a few more decades. Having lived through it, I can now say this to you with a bit more certainty than when death was a useful but purely intellectual concept: No one wants to die. Even people who want to go to heaven don’t want to die to get there. And yet death is the destination we all share. No one has ever escaped it. And that is as it should be, because Death is very likely the single best invention of Life. It is Life’s change agent. It clears out the old to make way for the new. Right now the new is you, but someday not too long from now, you will gradually become the old and be cleared away. Sorry to be so dramatic, but it is quite true.
6.\tYour time is limited, so don’t waste it living someone else’s life. Don’t be trapped by dogma—which is living with the results of other people’s thinking. Don’t let the noise of others’ opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary.
1.\t17岁的时候,我读到了一句格言,好像是:“如果你把每一天都当作生命中最后一天去生活的话,肯定有一天你会是正确的。”这句话给我留下了深刻的印象。自那以后,在过去的33年中我每天早晨都会对着镜子问自己:“如果今天是我生命中的最后一天,我会去做今天打算做的那些事吗?”每当答案连续多日都是“不会”的时候,我知道我该做些改变了。
2.\t提醒自己我即将死去,是帮我做出人生中许多重大抉择的最重要的工具。因为几乎所有的一切——所有他人的期望、荣耀、面子问题和对失败的恐惧——这些在死亡面前都会消失殆尽,留下的是真正重要的东西。提醒自己我将要死去,我认为是避免患得患失的最好办法。你本来就一无所有,没有理由不顺心而为。
3.\t大约一年前, 我被诊断出得了癌症。我在早晨7